Fast-changing images

My eldest sister used to live in Wanchai, on the island of Hong Kong. She died of stomach cancer in March 2010. Because she lived there for so many years after getting married—not in the same apartment but in the same district—I knew the area pretty well, too, because I visited her often, ever since I was a child.

I knew the streets, the buildings and the shops. I still go to my sister’s place, because that is where my cousins live. Because I visit the area quite often, I can usually follow the changes that are occurring in the landscape.

I wasn’t quite prepared for what I saw one day, though. Traveling on the tram from Central to Wanchai, I tried to look outside the tram window, through a packed carriage full of passengers, to see if I had reached my stop. I knew I would be close. I was somewhat taken aback by the view of an unfamiliar landscape. The shops and neon lights that met my eyes were unfamiliar to me. Where were the places I once knew?

As in all fast-growing economies, Hong Kong is one of the places in the world that undergoes frequent and rapid changes to her city landscape.

If I become sentimental about lost images in a city, what is it like for our senior citizens? Whenever I teach introductory concepts of age and aging, I ask my students to try to imagine what seniors in their 80s or 90s must have gone through. A senior who is 90 years of age would have gone through the First World War, the Second World War, the war against Japanese occupation (1937-45), the Chinese Civil War (1945-49) and the Cultural Revolution of China (1966-76).

I try to help my students understand why seniors like to save and not waste anything, and why they go a long way to save a few pennies. I hope that, through such reflections, young people will come to appreciate that such “odd” behaviors represent strengths, not weaknesses. However, I have never asked my students to imagine the landscape changes seniors have seen in their lifetimes.

If we consider for a moment what seniors have gone through, it must be a most amazing experience. They have been to places we have not and seen things we have not. We should know, therefore, that all seniors likely have something to teach us, regardless of their background or educational level.

For Reflections on Nursing Leadership (RNL), published by the Honor Society of Nursing, Sigma Theta Tau International.